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Reviewed by Georgia Tisdall, Teacher, Otatara School, Southland
Opening sentence
Ha! I nailed it! But then people are part of the universe, so the same laws should also apply to them right?
'The Friendship Paradox' follows Dash, a non-binary high school graduate who lands a dream job as a science presenter. Alongside fellow newcomer Kay, Dash travels to various schools, delivering high-energy chemistry and physics demonstrations that make learning fun for a variety of aged students.

What sets this book apart is its balance of "edutainment" and realism. While the science experiments provide a fun, intellectual backdrop, the core of the narrative focuses on Dash’s internal journey toward forging meaningful connections. Aśka doesn’t shy away from heavy themes; the story touches on alcoholism, divorce, and mental health crises with a refreshing, matter-of-fact tone. Rather than treating these as special issues, the author weaves them into the fabric of everyday life, reflecting how people navigate complex burdens behind the scenes.

Dash’s evolution from a solitary graduate to a valued teammate is both awkward and deeply rewarding. By normalising diverse identities and difficult personal lives, Aśka reminds us that empathy is a choice. I highly recommend this for readers aged 15 and up. It is a brilliant exploration of perspective that teaches us to look past the surface, because we never truly know what someone else is going through.
Publisher: Allen & Unwin
ISBN: 9781761181689
Format: Paperback
Publication: March 2026
Ages: 15+ years
Themes: Coming of age, identity, resilience, science